Hi. I have been thinking on this for a while. I have quite a dilemma. I have had long hair most of my life. cut it off to shoulder length for my senior year of high school, simply cause I vastly needed something different, but other then getting it layered, once or twice since then have not touched the length since 1999. My hair now is at its longest point almost past my butt. I really want to get the split ends trimmed off, but do not know how to get that done without risking loosing more then just the split ends, and ending up losing significant length. anyway, beyond not knowing what to do about the split ends, I have a bigger question. How do I keep my long hair and present as androgynous and/or Butch? I'm really at a loss. I have not had to think about this before, as I have only fully come out to myself in the last couple of years as gender fluid, but as I am now trying to expand my wardrobe to reflect this, my hair has become a bit of a problem. I already habitually braid it most of the time. but is there anything else I can do?
the more natural the better. I try to keep my life as organic and natural as possible.